With an approaching wedding on the horizon the topic of marriage has become a popular discussion in our household. I obliviously assume that marriage is all puffy ballgowns, white lace and an ascending trail of flowery bride’s maids. Exquisite cuisine and a guest list, mostly consisting of people you’ve never met who lack the decency to pronounce your name correctly. As I’m every day learning, my perceptions are shattered by revealing reality. Marriage is not a photoshop-perfect photograph of rows of glittering teeth representing the merging of two families.
I browse through the pages of bridal magazines envisioning the day when I walk down the aisle. Since I was a little girl I’ve visualized the theme colours of my wedding reception-but, what then? For us ordinary citizens of the journey of life, there are copious volumes after “You may now kiss the bride”. Unaware and naive as I was, I didn’t realize that marriage isn’t riding into the sunset on a whispy white carriage in central park. The road gets rocky with jittery bumps on the way but if my parents’ marriage has taught me anything it’s that the view is worth every obstacle along the voyage.
Daddy…
They say a girl looks for the qualities of her father in any potential interest. This is probably why I have almost unattainable standards. You’ve left a remarkable legacy, your character and personality is unparalleled. I am yet to find a man who possesses even a fraction of your traits . I have never met a more selfless and noble father, you’ve given your four daughters the galaxy and continuously add stars to our constellations.
Mummy…
I often joke, in horror, at the possibility of turning into you. Truthfully there isn’t anyone more worthy of emulation. You serve as an ideal example of a mother, wife, daughter and friend. Your benevolence knows no bounds and your humility is honorable. Just as I would be lucky to find a partner as unprecedented as Daddy, I would have reached the peak of ethereal grace if I could accomplish the challenge of becoming a woman as wonderous as you.
I hope nothing but the absolute best for you both and twenty plus more years of inspired splendor. I hope, in due time, I will have a relationship as real and riveting as yours.
My darling parents I am so grateful to and for you for all that you’ve done and more importantly for all that you are.
Your daughter
_Quixotic Novelist